Polyamory.

chillidoggy

It looks like the website is directed to your nearest server, cos it shows some gorgeous-looking totty that cannot possibly be local to this area.

VimFuego

we don't have a lobby. We have a couple of small landings and a long back passage.

frankus

I did say she was a Goth - for me that kinda caveats anything said afterwards with a "does this shit for attention"...

my mate the Goth skater
my mate the Goth politician
my mate the Goth writer.

I'm not saying their facile, shallow creatures... well actually I am.

I've nothing against polyamory - just Goths... I'm sure they'd have a way of turning such a simple pleasure into frustrating angst - ain't nobody got time for that...

as for a slut being someone who sleeps with everyone apart from me...

I got on the train today with all the unwashed hordes from V festival - I was fully aware they'd had fun and I wish I had... I can usually manage to spot my own judging behaviours called up to defend my own psyche from the sense of innadequacy.

Everyone gets laid more than me, probably lasts longer and has more fun doing it and always has, same with being good on guitar and playing gigs, catching waves, having friends etc etc... grass is always greener. I try not to dwell on it by packing my life with my own fun... when I don't I cast about and find unhappiness.

octatonic

Evilmags said:

I have an acquaintance who is a female porn actress. She claims to love her work and says she needs multiple partners to feel fulfilled. She holds a degree and is also a ski instructress so is no fool either. Can't think of any rational reason to object to her lifestyle if I'm honest.

Who is it?

I know most of the UK porn stars from when I was doing soundtrack stuff.

Wacka-chicka-wacka-chicka-chicka-wacka.

thumpingrug

Someone i worked with years ago was in a multi relationship.  It worked for them, they were happy, kids were happy. As long as no one gets hurt whats the issue?

Evilmags

Who is it?I know most of the UK porn stars from when I was doing soundtrack stuff.

Wacka-chicka-wacka-chicka-chicka-wacka.[/quote]

octatonic;15107" said:

Evilmags said:

I have an acquaintance who is a female porn actress. She claims to love her work and says she needs multiple partners to feel fulfilled. She holds a degree and is also a ski instructress so is no fool either. Can't think of any rational reason to object to her lifestyle if I'm honest.





Who is it?I know most of the UK porn stars from when I was doing soundtrack stuff.

Wacka-chicka-wacka-chicka-chicka-wacka.

She's not UK. She worked for Private Media under a director I know. Diana Gold is the screen name. Going for lunch with her in a City pub full of traders was hilarious. The amount of stares you get is unreal. She had a thing going with our tech analyst and his girlfriend. Her films are quite full on to say the least. She's worked with Siffredi and Max Hardcore so does not really do soft.

Fretwired

She's been in some class films then ...
 http://www.imdb.com/name/nm2269859/

Evilmags

She teaches kids to ski as well. Imagine dropping them off at class and thinking "where have I seen her before"

Drew_TNBD

Ever get the feeling people do this stuff just to be "different" ?

I read this article a while back:
http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2002/jan/09/familyandrelationships.features103

Same reaction really. Fill your boots, but I *am* going to laugh at you.

Col_Decker

^^^

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who the what now? Jeebus thats grim even by my standards

Drew_TNBD

Aye!! I also recall reading an article written anonymously by a woman who was in a long-term relationship with her brother. Pretty ick. Think that was also the Grauniad too.

octatonic

Drew_fx said:

Ever get the feeling people do this stuff just to be "different" ?

I read this article a while back:
http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2002/jan/09/familyandrelationships.features103

Same reaction really. Fill your boots, but I *am* going to laugh at you.

Zoinks!

Myranda

Having just read the Guardian article I think I'm broken - I didn't have a "visceral disgust" or a churning stomach. Ok I also don't have a burning desire to boink any of my relatives - but still there's "omg! eewww!" reaction either

Evilmags

A big weird to say the least but the law should focus on contraception and reproduction in this case and not physical fucking. Consent would appear to me the key here. It does make me go ewwww big style but chucking people in the nick for fucking is daft. The point of incense laws is to prevent genetically fucked up inbreds being born. Just make contraception a legal requirement for sex between related people (I'd include cousins). The UK has a issues with inbreeding amongst certain ethnic groups and a law like that could stop it without accusations of racism.

VimFuego

pretty sure Devonians can't be called an ethnic group...

digitalscream

Evilmags said:

The UK has a issues with inbreeding amongst certain ethnic groups and a law like that could stop it without accusations of racism.

Pretty sure some royal dude approached one territory like that a few hundred years back, and the fuckers still haven't let it go...

GuitarMonkey

The Royals are the most inbred of them all.