I have said that phrase without really thinking it through when you read about bad things happening to people. When I read this story though:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-coventry-warwickshire-49204293
while thinking about people I've met who want to have kids but can't, some on here who I won't name obviously, who you know would make great parents but hasn't worked out for them the story is even more heart breaking.
So if anyone reads comments from me about anything where I say "I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy" please take it as read I don't mind scum like this. The worse stuff that can happen to people like that the better.