We just had confirmation that my 9-year-old son didn't get into our first choice (outstanding) middle school next to our house, and instead is going to a much worse school a bus ride away. Obviously we're pretty bummed about this, and looking to appeal.
We moved to this area from about 15 miles away 3 years ago, and couldn't get him into a first school nearby, so we have been commuting him to his old school since them. He's been on the waiting list for our local first school (where his younger brother goes) since then, but no places came up.
It appears that he doesn't have a place because he isn't attending a feeder school, despite being smack bang in the middle of the catchment area. All feeder schools are oversubscribed. Feeder schools take precedence in admissions over distance.
The most annoying thing is that the first choice school feeds into an outstanding high school. The other feeds into a "needs improvement" high school.
Effectively, because he hasn't lived in this house since he was 3, his education will be worse to the age of 18, and there's nothing we can do short of stumping up 16k a year for private. His younger brother, on the other hand, will sail through each of these schools as he started in one of the feeders.
You may say I'm just bitter, but these are literally our closest schools by far, we're 4 minutes walk from each. We also moved to this house specifically because of this.
So, we are going to lodge an appeal, but it looks like that's a tough process - anyone on here been through something similar? Any advice?
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Currently formulating arguments for an appeal!
I wanted our kid to go to a school a 15minute bus journey away. We're not in the area, so were denied and put in a closer school - which is not as good. I spoke to the head, and she kept going on about diversity and religion. I specifically asked them what their science and maths programs were like, and she gave me a load of old typical waffle - she couldn't muster any sincere pride.
The nipper is only 4, but these decisions affect their entire lives. Yes, someone who is very intelligent can overcome a shit school. A lot of kids don't get the inspiration and the active reinforcement that they really need to succeed.
The voice of wisdom, cheers!
Our kids didn't go to the best school, but they went where their friends went and they were happy. It wasn't a great school but plenty of kids still got outstanding results. If kids are clever and work hard they will do well and if they don't they won't do so well. Generally if parents take an interest they do better - although we struggled to get our sons interested in school. Daughters did better.
After the first year we transferred him to school a few miles away with a much better reputation in which he has thrived.
He's breezing through his GCSEs( or rather the testing regime to replace them) and is taking Maths, Physics, Economics and Law at A level.
It's orobably true that bright kids can thrive anywhere, but I'm glad we didn't take the risk with the first school.
A system where parents get the final decision wouldn’t work as the majority of parents would (naturally) seek out the best rated schools - how would the applications be prioritised?
I'd walk the 40minutes with the nipper on my shoulders if I had to. A lot of parents wouldn't. They value their time more than their kids futures. I was put into a shit school as a kid because it was a 30 second walk from the house. All of the other schools - better ones - were at least a 10 minute drive. I didn't even get a choice.
If you want to talk about solving a few issues in society, I think there are bigger problems than road congestion. How about the rampant council estate nihilism that is ingrained throughout our society that leads to schools being shit in the first place?
If some schools weren't shit, and didn't focus on non-academic ideas to the detriment of education, then it wouldn't even be a problem. All schools should strive to be exceptional, but the simple reality is that they don't. They just chase figures and quotas.
The current system as it stands does mean (in my experience) that a lot of kids don’t go to their local school.
My experience of schools is kids are fucking arseholes to anybody who does not fit the norm.
In my son's case Asperger's, white and middle class in a predominantly black deprived area.
He suffered chronic depression and anxiety.
Alas specialist schools are no better and have become dumping grounds for kids with behaviour problems.
My son will be getting his education as an adult (night classes, etc) as the school system has truly failed him.
...and I paid a premium for my house to be in the catchment!
I think parents can get sucked in to thinking that a schools rating is a huge deal in getting the best possible education but there are so many other things in the schools pupils hierarchy system that have more of an effect.