hi folks, this is my first posting on the forum and I am really hoping I can get some help. I have posted on another forum and despite 124 people reading the thread not one person replied. I do hope I am not too much of a beginner for the forum.
Firstly, I am a novice, middle aged lady guitarist who can play most open chords fairly confidently, have good musicality, a reasonable voice and a lot of enthusiasm. I am not good with barre chords and have not yet really tackled any lead guitar to speak of.
I currently play twice a week with two of my neighbours but neither of them are at all ambitious and are happy doing what we are doing, just playing indoors, without wanting to move forwards however I would like to push myself to the next level by maybe doing some open mic nights or very small gigs, anything really to push me to play in public and drive me forwards. I played once at a small gathering of friends and family last year with my neighbours and am doing it again this October and I can't wait. The buzz I got off of it was amazing and I would love to do it more often.
So, does anyone think I am up to doing some open mics or similar and if so how do I go about it, what would I need, how does it work etc. Also any ideas about how I can find other people to play with would be great, really anything that might help this stupid old woman that wants to enjoy playing and get out in public. Please be honest though, if from what I have said you feel I am not of a suitable standard please do say!
thanks loads, I look forward to your replies
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Or find or form a band - local facebook musician groups would be a good place to look (or here perhaps)
Anyways, open mic nights sound like they will be right up your street. They can be different but most are pretty free form. Some you might need to put your name down at the beginning of the evening in order to make sure everyone gets a shot but most (in my area) are just free and easy and you get up if and when you want to.
You generally see all levels of abilities but I really would not be concerned at all about your playing. If you can do what you need/want to do you'll be fine at a jam night and you'll probably find people are extremely supportive of you. Its how I started "gigging" and it taught me loads.
In terms of moving yourself forward you might want to consider tackling those tricky barre chords as that will undoubtedly help you in the long run but all in all just chuck yourself into your local scene and most importantly ENJOY it!
Good luck
See if you can find a local night then just go along and see what's it like before coming back the following week with a guitar.
Good on you for wanting to get out there and make some music, be warned that its addictive though!!
Finding other musicians can be a bit pot luck. Again, if you're willing to sing it's a significant start. Finding one other reasonable person to put things together with (whatever it is you have in mind) is usually a start and build from there. You might find other people at open mic nights or on the net - joinmyband is a bit odd but if you don't mind sifting through idiots in hope it's fairly busy. There are Facebook musicians groups for most areas, my local one is usually a list of ads for gigs but if anyone actually posts anything interesting they actually get a good response. I think the thing is not to be disheartened if you do meet the odd time waster, it's a common enough experience.
Hope it goes well.
there are plenty here who will provide you with help and advice
You haven't mentioned what sort of music you like to sing and play and that might, just might, have a bearing on what sessions or open-mics to aim for. For example, in my area there are sessions that focus on country music, folk & blues, chart material, 'golden oldies', etc. Also some where just about anything goes.
I assume you play acoustic guitar so you may find that you are either expected to have a pickup in the guitar or you may be provided with a guitar mic. Either way you are likely to need the guitar amplified except in the quieter folk type clubs. Likewise you will probably be expected to sing into a mic and you'd be surprised how many find that a little disconcerting at first. You'll soon get into it because of your enthusiasm.
As far as guitar playing is concerned, knowing most open chords will get you through a fairly wide repertoire and you can, of course, use a capo to play those chords farther up the neck in other keys so don't worry too much about barre chords.
As others have said, at open-mic sessions you might meet others you could team up with if that's what you'd like. Otherwise just go out as a solo performer. There is rarely any payment for performing at those type of sessions but they can sometimes be a gateway to paid work if you make an impression.
Anyway, go for it and enjoy.
BTW - middle-aged isn't 'old'. There are plenty of members here who are not youngsters but are still gigging regularly and enjoying every moment of it.
Edit: I've just seen that your avatar is a very nice LP so perhaps the comments about acoustic guitars don't apply
Please can someone explain the frets on the forum to me, don't know what they are or how they work.
i have got an Epiphone Les Paul Custom Pro, the one in my signature pic, and a Taylor electro acoustic. I have also got a mic and stand from when we did the little gig last year so hopefully equipped ok.
I am am not worried about getting paid, I just want to get out there and play!!
Thank you you loads for the help and encouragement, it's wonderful!!!
Re Frets, I think it's the total number of LOL's/WOWS/WISDOMS responses you've had from others on your posts. These icons are at the bottom of each post and are ways you can acknowledge posts that have had an impact on you.
Oh, and re. being middle aged - don't worry, you're a youngster and I'd love to be middle aged again! LOL!
What type of music do you like to sing and play?
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Sorry OP...back on track
I am hopefully playing my first open mic night on Tues 24 October! Probably just me and my Tele for company but possibly my neighbour that I play with as well, time will tell re that part.
I have been put down enough by people (not on here I hasten to add!) that have never heard me play and know bugger all about playing. I am fed up with being told I am not good enough to join a jam night or go to open mic and intend to prove them wrong!
Some very nice comments made recently by a friend who does know his stuff has given me the push to give it a try. Whether I fly or crash and burn remains to be seen but if I don't try I will never know!
Wish me luck.......