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(As I've mentioned before...sorry for repeating)
It has been suggested to me (by a housemate who was studying spectrum disorders for her career) that I get checked for Asperger's. I understand that I do tick a lot of boxes: I make up my own social rules, I feel uncomfortable with eye contact, I don't empathise well, I have a fairly hard-edged comfort zone, plus others.
But I have never been diagnosed because I don't want to have a label put on what I consider to be my personality. Asperger's is a syndrome, a disorder, and it would be unpleasant to be told that my mind - my 'me' - is broken or wrong (not that I'd accept that...being able to dismiss societal convention is quite useful). I have had, and continue to have, a fairly happy and care-free life by just being me. My disorder (if it exists...I could just be 'quirky') is not a layer between 'me' and the world, it's a part of 'me' and doesn't need a name.
As @LuttiS said above, if it comes to that, then everyone knows and special arrangements can and have to be made to help that child achieve his or her full potential.
But yes - it's a difficult one - some parents don't want to hear or accept the reality of it all when it happens. Ignoring it won't help anyone in the long run, though.
Also remember that the subject of Aspergers and Autism is quite complicated. You really need the professionals to evaluate each individual case before jumping to conclusions. If it was a self-diagnosing, box ticking exercise, I'd put myself firmly on the spectrum, too, in many ways.
Unless, that is, they are using OCD as shorthand for "she likes things to be neat and ordered", which is not OCD at all.
Wasn't that what a lot of the advice in this thread advocated? does that make your advice "fucking idiotic"?
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Advice is advice. In this case asked for, freely given, and freely to be taken on board or discarded.
*don't worry, all the case candy is kept safely wrapped up for when they inevitably sell the guitar when they get golf club GAS
As long as we are all agreed
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Key there is "close", you need to be able to do it tactfully, some parents don't want to face reality though, so bare that in mind.
My daughter, now 8 years old, is profoundly disabled due to genetic mutation, the GP were utterly useless at the start and put all the issues down to diet and an anxious first time mum, it was only after my wifes mother and aunt took her to the doctor that the ball got rolling properly.
+wis. If you can't be tactful, be quiet.
If it's necessary to talk about the problem with someone, just stick to the grandparents (if they're around). The parents of the kid will be used to lectures from them.
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