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we explained it quite matter of fact and that enabled our daughter to grasp what had happend and to understand. Obviously its a bit different when a close family member dies, but kids are resilliant and will cope with these things.
couple of things though, it obviously played on her mind for a few months after as she kept talking about what will hapoen when mummy or daddy die and asking a lot of questions about how people can die and when.
Finally dont forget to tell your ex what has happened and how you broke the news and what you explained.
Sat her down, explained that he had died and also explained why - she seemed to appreciate the grown up way we did this with her. She was obviously very sad but had was herself by the morning.
She did ask a few questions but these centered around what's going to happen to other people or possessions.
The really strange thing was as soon as we walked into the house she knew something was wrong - she asked straight away what had happened.
Honesty is always the best policy. It doesn't mean you have to explain every single detail. That detail comes with age. I've I've never shied away from answering any questions my twins might have - though depending on their age I tried to explain it best how they'd understand it - but with no "looking down from heaven" and stuff like that - simple facts.
I didn't chime in as the advice given was good.
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