Below are 2 short clips of our gig on friday (usual disclaimers of - I wasn't on form that night so don't judge my playing lol )
In both I switch from a clean sound to a dirty one and lose myself in the mix a little.
I don't know if you will be able to tell from a youtube clip but I'm wondering if this is an eq issue or if I just need more volume. In isolation the dirty sound is considerably louder. I know try it and see is the obvious answer, but I don't get that much chance to hear myself in context of FOH so if there is an obvious place to start that would be goo.
For now I'm not going to post what I'm playing through - I know for some people that would cause them to judge the sound with their perceptions not their ears - I know you're not that person though
If anyone is interested I'll post my rig after I get a few suggestions.