wasnt sure whether to post this in case one of them saw this( i dont think they will) but doesnt matter anyway as im gonna have it out with them tonight. Ive been the principal gig getter, which i dont mind, im quite good at it. But earlier in the year i asked them to give me all their unavailable dates so i could just offer pubs what we had available. Last year i got them about 25 gigs, i could have got many more but fair enough if they had obligations) this year one member has given me 25 weekends he cant do,, thats half the fucking year. the others havny given me anything, despite me nagging. They want to work on the system that i get the gig then contact them and see if they can do it. one guy is notorious for not looking at his phone messages. long and short ive had to turn down about 20 gigs because one member (not always the same one) cant do it. we are down to about a handful of gigs now to the end of the year. Theses guys are good fun and im fond of them and i dont want to give them grief but i feel now our objectives for the band are not the same.
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It does sound like they have switched off a bit and might be looking for excuses not to do gigs, hoping that someone else is the one to call it a day first.
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Yeah I'm on a shared Hotmail calandar, If I haven't got unavailable on a date it's assumed I'm available which makes it a lot easy to book stuff.
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I had the exact same issue with a band I was in until a couple of years ago.
Liked them a lot, enjoyed the gigs, but problems as you laid out above. They were happy rehearsing once a week and sporadic gigs....it had started off at 20+ a year, then you could clearly tell they'd had enough.
I stuck with them for over 6 years, which was too long in retrospect. I left and am now with a band I'm much more suited to, where we're all on the same wavelength.
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Or he thinks he's just going to replace you with her. Good luck with that.
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From what I've seen you're easily the best musician in the band and you should be able to slot right into another covers group with very little hassle.