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"Take these three items, some WD-40, a vise grip, and a roll of duct tape. Any man worth his salt can fix almost any problem with this stuff alone." - Walt Kowalski
"Only two things are infinite - the universe, and human stupidity. And I'm not sure about the universe." - Albert Einstein
Unless there have been other difficulties and concerns going on, sacking someone for a single, relatively trivial event like this is weird and frankly I can't imagine treating any employee like that. Their assumption has made a bit of an ass of them, that's all
I'm sure most parents find that the rare times where you know you will bump into the childminder and your child take a bit of negotiation, normally because it can be confusing for the child who wants to go with their parents and can be upset if they don't.
I also noted a lot of posters were all too eager to go along with your stance and I thought a bit of a mob mentality was developing about it, which happens on forums just as it does in real life.
It is inevitable that you will hold a child minder to high standards of professionalism and will be alarmed if, in your mind, those standards are not being met.
Even a relatively "minor" event could result in an irrovacable loss of confidence and trust.
The whole childminding arrangement is a minefield, for sure. It's basically a cottage industry, I don't know of any childminder who has adequate insurance to deal with non-payment etc. It doesn't seem to be a business which is seen as needing more investment than completing background and safety checks. The childminders I know have had a terrible time chasing payments, when they surely should be obliged to have full insurance covering that side of things, and not expected to have to go through small claims courts.
But that's a different matter, it's all about professionalism on both sides.
My feedback thread is here.
What they should have is clear T&C and payment arrangements, and a sensible approach to credit control. And ideally be working for parents who don't take the piss by not paying on time.
Sounds more like they need some basic education/training in managing their business finances, not pissing money up the wall on insurance that enables shitty behaviour for others.
"Take these three items, some WD-40, a vise grip, and a roll of duct tape. Any man worth his salt can fix almost any problem with this stuff alone." - Walt Kowalski
"Only two things are infinite - the universe, and human stupidity. And I'm not sure about the universe." - Albert Einstein
I don’t believe in ruining people’s career (and potentially life). Mistakes are mistakes.
I think earlier up the thread she did explain to the OP what happened. I know our kids are the most precious thing in the world to us (except maybe an R8) but this lady also has children who she needs to clothe and feed and put a roof over.
Trust is broken now anyway so you might as well chuck her under the bus before she leaves any other kids to run into the road
The childminder won't explain that. Her reaction was as though she thought the issue was I'm angry about having my kid back a few hours early.
I think she knew we were down by my sons classroom, sent her daughter over with mine, then watched to see if we'd take her. She absolutely was not where she claims she was. If she was I'd have just played it off like "haha she's come back to us! We're just going to the supermarket, we'll come for her at the usual time".
When it was clarified that I was upset that she didn't have adult supervision and she wasn't even in view, she just said sorry I thought nothing of it. Then in an absolutely bizarre move she started a Facebook group message with my wife and another (uninvolved) mum and started talking about it in there.
Just told my wife to stay out of it and not respond. I've had a look at the contract and she's put 'ad hoc as needed' on it for some reason, so she's not needed anymore.
get over yourself.
Sort it out with her face to face, and save us from this tedium. Reporting her to Offstead because of a misunderstanding says more about you than her.
and yes, before you ask, I have kids....and a grandchild on the way.