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In many cases outside help is essential but there's also a lot of lonely old people relying on help from churches (I'm not religious but have seen this), charities, and state support when their kids could help out at least to a partial extent but choose not to.
I'm fully aware there are many people have not had positive relationships with their family, as well as other practical reasons preventing them helping, and I don't expect anyone to do something out of shaming from outside. But I don't understand a lot of people on this subject. I am not singling anyone out here, but I do think this is a big social issue for the country (and many others) and only likely to become a larger one as people live longer (but not necessarily always will a full quality of life).
We go over every Thursday (we live about an hour's drive away), and take her out to collect her pension and to the local shops.
She's already told me she wants to go in a home when she can't cope, and had already decided which one, but unfortunately it has closed recently, so she's found another one.
I'm sure my siblings would help but I live nearest - one lives in Cheltenham, one lives in Exeter, and one lives in Sweden...
She keeps telling me how grateful she is that we keep on visiting, but to me it's just what I should do.
I can't recommend it too much. It's hard work, physically and mentally. Although I have cleaned hundreds of bums and more in my lifetime, there is something that makes it harder. Or perhaps it's just me being a weiner. Despite that, I wouldn't have it any other way (that was edited in).
All that said, I'm proud of it, and I'm dead proud of my parents. They have, however, forbidden me from looking after them - I think they're hoping there are more options for them by the time they're old enough to not take care of themselves.
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