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having said that I really get on with them and always have and understand that if that wasn't the case looking after them would not be a foregone conclusion.
i specifically remember my mum saying that it would make her feel horrible if we felt we had to look after her. She said that was not why she brought us into the world and she certainly did not wish us to live our life around them. Very noble I thought. Can be tough in practice though
do what is right by you, your kids, and then your parents. If you can do all of them and still be happy then good for you
I think the only answer I feel I can really give is, "of course I want to be here, but my family is my priority, so I can't commit to anything that would interfere with that." It sounds heartless, but I don't see how I can promise anything else.. They are not actually that old (both still in their 60's), and in sheltered accommodation.
I certainly feel like I would want my kids to do the same when my time comes, but maybe that is because I am not that old yet..
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they just don't know it yet.
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He might not even charge.
I haven't been asked to make such a commitment, but it's a subject that's been on my mind a lot the last few months.
My stepmother died in July so my dad's on his own now and we (my brothers and sisters and extended families) have been seeing a lot more of him than we have for many years. He's 82, a bit frail, a bit forgetful, he can still take care of himself but there will inevitably come a time when he can't.
I don't think he would ever actually ask to be looked after, as such, but I would like him to move into a smaller place, not a care home but somewhere with a bit of "backup" in case of emergencies. I don't think I could actually move in and look after him though, I know it sounds harsh but it would drive me crazy.
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Through my wife's work, we've also come across many people who put their parents in homes and only show up when it's time for the estate to be shared out.
It strikes me that there's a happy medium between that and full-on "wait on us hand and foot".
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