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My entire world went to shit, and I spent three months thinking of reasons to keep me neck out of a noose. I then had a personal epiphany, and my whole perspective shifted entirely. With a bit of help from my mate @Alnico
Was sitting in office one day and she was in seeing one of her punters. Bear in mind I knew nothing of the girl other than her professional life. And I thought, "You know what? I'm having her". Had always really liked her, but was married, so was always a nothing.
Did some digging around, ascertained she was single (had me mate at work 'interrogate' her) but also hugely busy with very little free time due to debt from her previous relationship breakdown, and having to work loads to address that.
I just went for it. Emailed her, effectively saying, "I really like you, and this is what's gonna happen.." Some mild protestation, which I circumnavigated, she gave up her mobile number, and first date occurred. And a blinder it was too. Mind, I didn't realise she was eleven years my junior, but you take the bonus where you can! Then she buggered off to Aus for three or so weeks. Women!
That was what, four months ago? Still going. You've gotta make her feel like she's the only girl on the planet, every day. But it has to feel like that to you as well. I don't bullshit her, lie to her, argue with her, pick fault, nowt. Life's too short.
She knows my children are my priority, but I make sure she's aware that after my children, she's the most important person in my life. Every day.
Y'see, I'm not afraid of rejection, or to say what I feel. I'm not jealous or possessive, or a 'worrier' in relationships, it is what it'll be, just enjoy it. And make sure your on yer game in the sack...
She had a 'blip' last week when she ended it. I accepted that and didn't ask why? The blip only lasted three days. Turns out she flapped cause she likes me more than she thought she should. Order was soon restored.
I 'made' an absolutely stunning wee blonde girl, who's very intelligent, very clever, and very independent, 'like me'
, when she wasn't looking for anything at all bloke wise when I decided to do that.
If I can do that, at 44, I'm sure you'll breeze it. Just don't talk about fucking guitars all night. You want, go get.
When the pest controller arrived he said that wasps in the nest were all dead and then offered me a job.
I have no idea why I am pretending to be happy when I have wasted £40.
Ringleader of the Cambridge cartel, pedal champ and king of the dirt boxes (down to 21)
Ringleader of the Cambridge cartel, pedal champ and king of the dirt boxes (down to 21)
Dead happy for both of you man.
Get in!
19,320* days was what my dad got on this planet. I was 15 when he died.
I've always basically thought "genes will out" -- and I dunno, didn't expect to get this far. No pension plan; no ties; no commitments. It hasn't dominated my life but it has always been there, a pressure behind some big decisions.
Today, for me, is 19321
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It's the last day I'll count.
It's an open road now.
*52y, 10m, 23d