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I think your threshold for what is dismissive and rude is so low that it doesn't seem particularly useful. And your attempted brow-beating is so disproportionate to the actual crime that I can only think it is you who has ideology at the centre of your mindset.
No-one called her names, no-one abused her, no-one said her lived experiences were invalid. I made a stupid joke about Christmas jumpers. Big whoop.
I've not called anyone a twat. Several people here have. I've not insulted anyone's sex or gender. Several people here have. I think you need to open your horizons a bit as to what politeness and consideration actually are.
One guy made a joke about my wife leaving me for (presumably) someone more like him - y'know... supposedly thoughtful... supposedly more self aware .... - am I crying?
Yes I am actually. It reaaaaalllyyy upset me. No, really. It did! I'm heartbroken! I feel like throwing myself off the top of the next multi-story!
.... point being, if you really cared about politeness, you'd be better off tackling more than a bloody joke about sad-sacks who wear Christmas jumpers in the middle of July!
And she didn't even seem that bothered. You're more bothered about it than she was, which says a lot.
Anyway, I've said my piece. You lot can carry on and whinge about the state of the world if you like. I don't really have anything to add to my viewpoint. But I do think it's important that all viewpoints are expressed, and that people don't feel bullied into silence when they disagree with prevailing notions. It's too important. A lot of people believe they have the high ground because plenty of people who disagree just keep quiet to keep the peace. This is a long-term self-defeatist strategy in my opinion, which is why I express myself on such subjects. Society is too important, and we all have a stake in it.
I really would like that. I missed on the chance to meet folk from here in the past with some of the musical meetings from the MR days but it always entertains me how many people I can't stand the internet persona of are actually my kind of people.
Its too easy to respond with no real consequence without seeing if any hurt has been metered out by a 'well chosen' barb. And without any negative feedback the loop keeps intensifying.
How many people on here really have a dog in this fight? Probably considerably less than the number of posters.