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my mate has a nail in his coffin
I have a nail in my tyre
30 mile drive - Trye place can’t fix it until tomorrow morning
Not really.
In retirement I have a navy suit for weddings and funerals but listen to what the family say and if nothing is said I turn up in suit and black tie.
Jeans and t shirt for my funeral or something equally casual. and enjoy a few drinks afterwards.
For my father's funeral, my mother expressly said "no black or sombre clothes". And I'm pretty sure she wouldn't want that when her time comes either.
Other people, families or situations will differ though. In some ways it's unhelpful that the old traditions don't apply anymore, but in other ways maybe it makes the process a bit more personal, meaningful and memorable to those involved.
"Take these three items, some WD-40, a vise grip, and a roll of duct tape. Any man worth his salt can fix almost any problem with this stuff alone." - Walt Kowalski
"Only two things are infinite - the universe, and human stupidity. And I'm not sure about the universe." - Albert Einstein
Definitely no shorts or sneakers.
1) Weddings
2) Funerals
3) Court appearances.
Outlandishly jolly clothing might not always be acceptable but showing up is usually preferable over not showing up.
The second priority is for me to feel that I’ve shown due respect. Since retiring I’ve lived in jeans. Gigs and funerals are the only times I get to dress otherwise.
It would be unconscionable to do anything that the close family might interpret as taking the piss.
The default should be something anonymous. If in doubt, ask.
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