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Seriously, it doesn't always hurt when I laugh.
Look, we're nothing more than munchkins to the guy - our sense of self importance is based on our own eco system... it doesn't go outside the walls.. the experience and knowledge we appreciate here has been earned over time and here we are shaming a guy for not buying into it in one day... in order for us to shame him some more!
He's no reason to accept this authority without evidence.
Our assertion that these people are an authority is not evidence.
With the best will in the world noone is going to change so profoundly based on such poor evidence.
The rest is cancelled out by that.
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If you suspect you might not have a case or don't have the time to pursue it, then inviting him here is just lazy vigilantism
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So every other issued raised is cancelled out by your perception of others sense of self importance. Steady on Frank I think you are close to creating a paradox.
As such I can completely understand why you guys are not getting the pay-off you're so clearly seeking.
If your motivation was to fix the source of guitars so that more people taking up guitar love their first guitar (which appears to the covert motive for this game) then there are countless ways for a creative mind TO DO THAT BETTER!
You've called this guy to the headmasters office and it's a free-for-all - it's a fucking useless way to communicate and get someone to change their mind. It's SO STUPID it is beneath you. So either you're blinded by your emotions or you're happy to just punish the guy. I really cannot see how you hope to communicate effectively using this medium.
This thread is a total failure in every regard except for a few people content to futilely demean a guy. Sure there are good intentions amongst the noise - they WON'T BE HEARD - put yourself in his place.
If you genuinely want anything positive from this interaction, ask the mods to shut up people having a bitch, AND back it up on the self-righteousness.
The intent of your communication CAN ONLY BE the response you get. You've not got the response you wanted ... so are you being entirely honest with yourself about the intent of the communication... if you're genuinely mistaken ADAPT!! for the sake of the good you're trying to do.
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There are rescuers (wanting to save this guy from himself), there are vigilantes (wanting to rescue the "victims" of his guitars), there are victims (wanting redress for their disappointment), there are armchair experts, there are cynics (just loving the churn this is creating)... there are many many agendas and all of them involve shaming this guy, he'd be an idiot to tolerate it.
The rescuers might want to believe he'd see their wisdom and be redeemed, the vigilantes might want to confess he's a fraud, the victims might want an apology, the experts might want recognition from their peers, the cynics might find another victim - that is a fuck load of commitments to foist onto a complete stranger.
He has every reason to think very little of this place.
Second I can't tell you what to say because I don't know that I fully understand your agenda from what's been written here.
(if I can't understand your motivations and I've got no stake in the drama, how do you think it'll work for the person being encouraged to be the victim?)
Thirdly being technically and morally right doesn't work in arguments with your wife does it?
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After the discussion the other day with @Jetfire in the thread about productivity, I was pleased I'd managed to rephrase all the negative statements I'd like to have made into positive statements - what I wanted. In part that was helped greatly by Jetfire as I've met him and he's a balanced guy, it was easier to think better of him, that the issue was a flaw in communication, so rather than focussing on what I didn't want I'd focus on what I did want and it was easier to think creatively as a result.
I applied it to the motivation we'd been discussing and figure out what I enjoyed, what was productive, what was unproductive about this forum - where did I experience happiness and where did I lose out due to unhappiness and as such I identified that the only time this place nears normal human interaction is in contentious threads.
WHICH, I place myself in the middle of. So I'm examining my role which so far appears to involve enjoying expressing my authentic self. There are elements of recognition involved Oct is a hero as are Ash and ICBM, you're an exemplar of balance... hence the response. I think these explanations get mistaken for martyrdom as people try to put them down or exploit them... but the reality is by the time other people understand them my understanding has shifted.
Is that answer complete and authentic enough for you?