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Sorry to be so mundane.
I'm not locked in here with you, you are locked in here with me.
I don't know what a modern cultivar is. I shall endeavour to get this sorted in the near future.
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Condolences bro.
You've been there for Sheena. Now take a breath and be there for Tom.
I'm not locked in here with you, you are locked in here with me.
Ah, thanks so much if you get a pic up!
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Thomas - if you are looking for a tree, I can wholeheartedly recommend Mill Garden Centre in Armadale (https://www.millgardencentre.co.uk/). They are extremely knowledgable and have an excellent stock of shrubs/trees that may be suitable (specialist in Japanese maples which though don't flower, often have truly spectacular foliage at this time of year). Failing that, Binny Plants in West Lothian are also excellent, particularly for peonies, https://www.binnyplants.com/
Take care of yourself,
Adam
Can I just be really soppy for a moment and say your case was special, you mean a lot to a group of strangers on here and you made Sheena mean a lot to us too, add in the sheer brilliance you both showed through it all and it was special to a lot of us.
I still can't believe she held out until my birthday. She just kept giving.
@Kalimna thank you for the specific recommendations - believe me, I'll check those out.
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I lost my Dad a few years ago to Cancer and whilst I could have told you about this earlier, it's a horrible thing to go through and a lot of the feelings you were writing about brought back memories to me.
Sheena obviously was a very strong character and as you say she was the real hero in all of this, however, you too helped make her that hero with your support, care and love.
You'll never really get "over" it, you'll just learn to deal with it and the raw feelings you are having now will recede I promise - if that makes sense.
Just please please please take some time out for yourself, have your "me, me, me" moment - you deserve it and probably more importantly you NEED it!!
I found that doing all of the legal bits around stuff like this also helped - it helped to focus the mind on other things even though what you are focusing on are directly related.
Oh and the tree thing is a wonderful idea!!
Weve all read the worst part of your life, and I for one would love to read the future and see the pieces rebuild (no matter how long it will take). There will be good and bad times ahead, and we will all do our best to support it all
I will keep reading and responding for as long as you keep writing.
Even though I never had the pleasure of meeting Sheena i hope she is in a better place away from that hellish disease, your strength through all of this has been awe inspiring but please let people help you now.
This thread is a big part of why i signed up for stand up to cancers gaming marathon, if it is ok with you i would like to dedicate it to both of you.
Please don't stop updating this thread, it has deeply touched all of us and even though it might not seem like it now but there is a huge amount of help and support here waiting for you.
much love Adam x
@speshul91 of course, honoured!
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I lost my beloved dad in April, so whilst a very different relationship I can kinda understand how you are feeling. Please, please take all the time you need for you and your emotions. Sadly people tend to have unrealistic expectations of grief but please ignore them. Nobody, not even you, can know how grief is going to manifest itself. It strikes when you least expect it. I have good days and awful ones. If you ever need an ear you can always PM me, I will help all I can.