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All the best mate.
thinking of you Tiggs....
What a journey since February when I first mentioned our devastating news. My own journey wont end until I see Sheena again, which she hoped wouldn't be for a long time. What she has done since February (and even before then over the last ten years, to be honest) shows what life is all about, how to compose yourself and get things done, how to be a good person and support others. Thank you, Sheena - for everything.
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Dexter is very grateful for your efforts to cat rescue!
She wants to say "Thank You" as well...
https://i.imgur.com/eVA6LSP.jpg
Thanks, all!
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Thank you, Sheena.
"Take these three items, some WD-40, a vise grip, and a roll of duct tape. Any man worth his salt can fix almost any problem with this stuff alone." - Walt Kowalski
"Only two things are infinite - the universe, and human stupidity. And I'm not sure about the universe." - Albert Einstein
I'll tally up the funeral donations when I have some time.
Just been forwarding the multitude of videos she left for family & friends. Letters and gifts, too.
I opened my build-a-bear from her last night with personalised message - that's right... I have a teddy bear now!
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I have to say you are an inspiration. I hope I am never in the same position. But if I am I hope I can be as strong as you have been.
Thomas, sorry, but i hadn’t been following this thread and thus was unaware of the news until you e-mailed earlier today.
However, just e-mail me anytime about anything.
This is hopefully the only time I'll mention this but... Her son didn't take too kindly to the video he was left. There was good and bad said, but it was all truth and ended with a message of love. He has always had an issue which he was never man enough to resolve, despite Sheena holding out the olive branch. He messaged me saying lots of nasty things about Sheena. So I've set him straight (Sheena can't defend herself so I will) and cut off contact. People said he was coping in his own way but as I said, Sheena knew her son. And so did I. It's not been a good time in that regard.
It's been very lonely. I'm not taking joy out of things like watching films. I'm not playing guitar and I'm glad I never bought an expensive acoustic. Other than looking out for the girls, I don't know what to do with myself. Immediate friends aren't really here. Life is more grey and I can understand how loneliness is a real issue for older people. It's good to have the girls for company when they're here. Still lots and lots to do, not just related to the estate, messages etc but also regarding care for my now autistic step daughter. It's all good, though. I do that gladly and will uphold my promise to look out for them both. Oh and I got all those photos and videos on Google drive, thank heavens.
I miss everything about her. The cuddles and companionship, her good looks, our 100% open and honest conversations, going shopping with her, everything.
We raised near £900 for Lothian cat rescue and Marie curie and I might top it up to £1500 plus recurring annual donations. Lots of nice memories of Sheena written on card at the wake and put in the memory box the girls made.
Cheers for now!
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Don't beat yourself up about feeling that way - or any way at all - as you've got huge amounts of emotion and stress to deal with and work through.
Probably a good thing that you're feeling like this now, and facing it all now, rather than bottling it up and having it all explode on you at some future (unexpected) time.
Gradually the pain will pass. It might not feel like it right now, but that's the power of time. The memories will stay forever, but you'll remember the happy times more and the pain of the last few weeks and months will be put into perspective against the years of happiness.
The smiles will outweigh the sadness - though I guess she'll always be able to bring a tear to your eye.
Take it easy.
I'm sure this will come across as patronising and glib or even crass, but it's not meant to. I just want to recommend you go get yourself some grief counselling. It will really help you come to terms with what's happened, but even more important, your feelings, and show you that everything you're going through is completely normal.
Take it easy, young man. You're bigger and stronger than you think, you know.