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Time to enjoy life!
And don't let any of her vile words sink into your self-esteem. Learn to love yourself. All the best.
Good luck. Hope it goes well for you and for her too. Hopefully you can let her know why at some point - that a whole new moral conundrum.
Remember with women that they don't care about you as a person, they care about attention. You're doing the right thing by moving on but because you're not contacting her she isn't getting any attention and is lashing out. Don't fall into the trap of messaging her as it'll all be sweet as roses for a short time then she'll flip her lid again.
She's upset that you've got control of your life rather than her controlling you. Stay strong, ignore her. If she starts being a git then tell her, as bluntly as you can, to fuck off. If she persists then get plod on her.
Take the time for YOU - learn new hobbies, and just enjoy your own company to get your confidence and self-esteem up. Enjoy being YOU, before you start looking to date again, or you are potentially going to take a step back.
Just take some time out alone.
Guess that's my insensitive / desensitised inability and lack of emotion to be bothered by these things even when I was young
I blame it on the parents.......boarding school from age of 7 etc, etc
It's a hard job being my wife ;poor old thing !
As regards her calls, she needs to vent her anger and frustration so if you block her she'll likely just bad-mouth you to all and sundry. I was continuously bombarded with voicemails and texts from my deranged ex. At first I listened to them but soon found they were always rambling, repetitive and abusive so I just let her continue sending them but deleted them without listening or reading. She tired of getting no response. Getting police involved is unnecessary and frankly just a waste of time - they won't be interested.
This is the first step. Keep being intentional with what you do with your time.
Recognise your weaknesses and know you will be tempted to go back again in the future. Come up with a game plan of what you might do to combat these moments.
Keep going, you can do it!